(the first) 100 Acts of Self Love** (i could come up with. what else can you come up with?)
- draw a heart on a part of your body
- smile at yourself in the mirror
- take a deep breath
- say "I love you" to yourself
- place your hands over your heart and say "I am lovable, I am loving, I am loved"
- sing your favorite love song, at the top of your lungs, to yourself...
- write a loving message about yourself on the bathroom mirror
- drink something warm and comforting
- drink something cold and refreshing
- take a walk
- find some sunlight, turn your face to it, close your eyes, and breathe it in
- pay yourself a compliment
- give yourself a hug/ask a really good hugger for a hug
- send yourself a loving text message
- leave yourself a loving voicemail
- go to the bathroom when you first feel the urge instead of waiting until you might explode
- think about someone you love (maybe even let them know you are)
- buy yourself a present
- stop and smell a flower
- savor a piece of fruit
- go to bed early
- stay up late
- write down exactly what you're thinking
- when something feels like a mistake, reframe it into a lesson learned
- call a friend
- write yourself a love note
- wear something that makes you feel good
- eat something you want to eat instead of what you SHOULD eat
- see yourself happy
- say "i love my (insert body part here)" for every part of your body you clean in the shower
- spend 10 minutes straightening up
- let the mess stay the way it is for another day
- light a candle
- laugh
- wear something comfortable
- sit in silence with yourself
- think about what you're grateful for
- remember what it felt like to kiss someone for the first time and let that memory vibrate through your body and tingle in all the best places
- drive the speed limit the whole day (and forgive yourself if you're late)
- close your eyes for a moment
- take a break
- splurge for the froofy drink
- daydream a dream vacation
- thank your body for something it does (walk, climb, breathe, etc.)
- read something just because
- have an orgasm
- say no to something you don't want to do
- say yes to something you do want to do
- cook for yourself
- take yourself out to eat
- eat outside
- doodle
- have a silly photo shoot with yourself
- admire your surroundings
- turn the cell phone off for a set period of time
- go somewhere by yourself
- spend time with someone you love
- notice when things go right
- make a list of things you're good at
- ask people who love you what they love about you (and believe them)
- sit or lie on the floor and admire a different perspective
- get things ready the night before
- get your heart rate up for 20-30 minutes
- drive with all the windows down
- look at photos
- watch a ridiculous video on youtube
- quench your thirst or feed your hunger when it first becomes present
- do what you feel like doing when you feel like doing it
- do something you've been meaning to do
- take a moment to use all 5 of your senses (touch, taste, smell, sight, and sound)
- trust your intuition
- say how you're feeling
- snuggle/cuddle with someone/thing (see here for instructions on how to "spoon" yourself)
- take your shoes off
- watch a favorite show or movie
- play background music
- play a game
- think about the last compliment someone gave you (and then repeat it to yourself)
- re-read old love notes, letters, cards
- stare off into space
- go outside at night and look at the sky
- take a snack with you
- eat something green
- go putz around on Facebook or Twitter
- Stay off of Facebook or Twitter for a day
- give yourself a gift (buy a new one, or wrap and unwrap something you already own!)
- ask yourself "what do I need?" and then get that need met
- spend some time with an animal
- spend some time with a child
- turn the music up all the way
- dance (like no one is watching... seriously. if you need that to be alone like i would, go for it.)
- take a different route to work/school/etc
- take the stairs
- mix up the routine/do something differently than you normally would
- floss your teeth
- wash your hands
- take a bath/shower
- make a list
- hold your own hand
- take a break
*important addition to every one of these: and FEEL GOOD about it
**and goodness please don't do any of these things if they would result in death or dismemberment